You are what you love, not who loves you.
Save Rock and Roll - Fall Out Boy ft. Elton John
I won’t run when bullets chase me. I won’t rest where arms embrace me. I will love when people hate me. I won’t hush, no you can’t make me. Send the dark but it won’t break me. You can try but you can’t change me. Take my life, they will replace me. I won’s hush. No you can’t make me.
Pioneer - The Band Perry

Let your Heart Not Be Troubled.
It’s better to feel pain than nothing at all
Stubborn Love - The Lumineers
And my head told my heart ‘Let love grow’ But my heart told my head ‘This time no’
Mumford & Sons - Winter Winds